Losing weight isn’t just about counting calories and hitting the gym—it’s about setting up your environment so that making the right choices is easy and making the wrong choices is… kind of impossible. If you live with others, eat out occasionally, or struggle with cravings at home (like every human does), here’s how to structure your life so weight loss feels way easier.
If you share a home with family, roommates, or a partner, their food choices will affect you. If they’re keeping chips, cookies, and ice cream in the kitchen, it’s only a matter of time before you grab some. You need to have a conversation.
It doesn’t have to be dramatic. Just explain that you’re trying to eat better and would appreciate their support. Ask if they can keep certain snacks out of sight or, if possible, not bring them into shared spaces. Some people will be cool about it. Others might push back.
If they resist, try this:
Not everyone will be on board, and that’s fine. You just need to set boundaries where you can.
Eating out doesn’t have to ruin your progress, but you can’t wing it. Most places post their menus online—use them. Decide what you’ll order before you go so you’re not making a decision when you’re hungry and surrounded by people ordering fries.
And don’t be afraid to make special requests. Restaurants deal with picky eaters all the time, so asking for grilled chicken without butter or veggies steamed instead of sautéed isn’t weird. A simple way to ask:
They might say no, but most of the time, they’ll say yes. If you're really unsure, call ahead. The key is not making decisions in the moment when your willpower is lower.
If it’s in your kitchen, you’ll eat it. If it’s not, you won’t. Simple.
When cravings hit, most people reach for what’s easy. No one gets the sudden urge to eat a raw potato. That’s why keeping junk food out of the house is one of the best weight-loss hacks. If you want ice cream badly enough to leave the house and go buy it, fine. But at least you’ve added a barrier between yourself and that impulse decision.
Stock your kitchen with things you actually want to eat when you're hungry:
If you must keep tempting foods around for family, put them somewhere inconvenient—like a high shelf or a different room. Make the good choices easy and the bad choices hard.
Weight loss isn’t just about willpower—it’s about setting up your environment so you don’t need much willpower. Control what you can at home, plan ahead when eating out, and have the tough conversations with the people you live with.
If you’re ready to make real progress and want a plan that actually works for your lifestyle, come see us at Hardbat Athletics in Newark, Delaware. We’ll help you put this all into practice so you can lose weight without constantly feeling like you’re fighting yourself.